So a physician/colleague/friend called me yesterday, "Hey Mo, what's the best sex toy for women? I have a patient who can't orgasm."
"Has she ever been able to experience an orgasm or is this a a change?" I asked.
He explained that she was unsure as to whether or not she's ever had one. hashtag#MissingOut Women who have never experienced an orgasm have what is known as Primary Anorgasmia.
Women report an inability to experience orgasm even with a caring, skilled partner, adequate time, privacy, and an absence of medical issues or sexual abuse which would affect sexual satisfaction.
This is why sex education around pleasure is key. 70% of women require clitoral stimulation to experience orgasm. And believe you me, the journey is not as good as the destination.
The patient was 53 years of age. I reminded the doctor that vaginal health is critical to experiencing orgasms. Women who have vaginal dryness, common in the menopause years, may take longer or be unable to experience an orgasm. A personal moisturizer, localized estrogen therapy in the form of a cream or ring or DHEA compounded may help.
Sex and health come together.
So, my recommendation for the best sex toy? The Womanizer which is a clitoral stimulation device. Works every time in a healthy of mind and vagina woman. Oh, did I mention multiples?
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Maureen a Registered Nurse, Continence Advisor, Sexual Health Educator and hosts the Sunday Night Health Show https://globalnews.ca/bc/program/sunday-night-health-show