There's power in those pumps whether they be in the bedroom or the boardroom. But since so few women today are in boardrooms, I will stick to the subject where I have far more expertease-the power of the pumps in the bedroom. We're talking shoes, ladies, fabulous shoes!
Pumps are empowering on many different levels but they may also get you in trouble which can be a good thing. I once tried to talk to a cabinet minister about an issue that affects 16% of the population. He was willing to talk until I stood up and towered over his ginger-topped head. I was shut down in an instant.
You see I rapidly go from 5'7" to 5'11 inches in a darn good pair of 4 inch heels. He on the other hand couldn't stand to stand next to me from way down there and so he cut the conversation short in one of the rudest diatribes ever. My pumps failed me or so I thought. In actual fact, my pumps confirmed what I already knew. The power he perceived in me invoked fear in him. He was shorter and therefore felt less powerful at that moment.
He hadn't taken away my power, he fuelled it. The lesson? Don't ever underestimate the power of your pumps ladies! Now let's get back to the bedroom, where pumps are essential. First of all, there is no sexier shoe out there ladies! When you strap on a pair of 3, 4, 6 inch pumps, not only do you stand a little taller, you are straighter and can really strut your stuff! Whether you're in luscious lingerie or decide your birthday suit is best, pumps can be a surefire way to more pleasure!
Keep in mind your pumps give you power in the bedroom too. Standing over your lover in the power pose, your pumps will lift everything from your breasts to your bottom. You feel sexier in pumps, stronger and that propels your feminine power. Pumps transform a woman. Feeling sexy and powerful, it's much easier to put on a show for your man. You perform much better dressed up in pumps.
But there are other ways to exert your feminine power in the bedroom. Powerful women get what they want in the bedroom because they know what they desire from their man. If you want your man to scream with pleasure, then you need to change up the routine one step at a time.
First and foremost, initiate sex. It all begins with you. Next tell your man you want to try something new. It could be as simple as demanding a few things from him- a back or front rub, a foot massage or certain favourite delicacies. Start to build the sexual tension by teasing him and talking dirty.
Believe you me, he'll love it. Whisper in his hear while you nibble on his neck. Then bring on just a bit of light kink to start; blindfold, handcuffs, a tie or two. You'll need him to be obedient so if he misbehaves, you'll have to spank him. Perhaps a light whip is in order? HELLO 50 SHADES!
Next you'll want to get right down to it. Oral Sex that is. Insist he go down on you first and not just once but twice. This can be part of the rules of your power play in pumps. After all, you're the boss lady in the bedroom? As the sexual tension soars, it's his turn.
Knowing how to perform below the belt will leave him begging for more. You'll quickly become his addiction which means he'll be back again for sure. Harness your feminine power and then unleash it ladies. Remember there's power in those pumps so slap some on whether it be in the boardroom or the bedroom and strut your stuff in sexy style! Pumps.
Maureen McGrath hosts the Sunday Night Sex Show on News Talk 980 CKNW. She is passionate about raising awareness and helping to end male violence against women. Her TEDx talk on the Sexless Marriage has had over 2.3 million views. She is in private practice in North Vancouver and author of the book: Sex & Health:Why One Can't Come Without The Other. She is Executive Director of the Women's Health Initiative Network.