When you ask your wife to talk dirty to you & she whispers in your ear, "kitchen, bathrooms, toilets," you know your sex life is a mess.
You're thinking,"get her a plunger," she's always bringing up the past. This won't help. Grabbing the Lysol will. We call this "chore play." And it's real.
Sorry to focus on the chores guys, but women are exhausted & chores are boring. You're so right. Women need excitement.
Too many chores day in & day out turn women into tired bores. Fatigue is the #1 reason for low sexual desire. But someone has to do it.
It's all about what happens before you get back to the bedroom that matters. #Choreplay
Just. Notice. The. Mess. Please.
Wipe A Counter. Feed A Kid. Put the Milk Away. Load of laundry! Yes, Yes, Yes! You're getting it! You will be paid back in spades. I am not making this up. But do make a bed please. Mess it up later.
Studies show that women are more likely to do most of the housework in heterosexual couples than their male partners are, even when they work longer hours & earn more.
Couples who divide the household chores evenly have more sex.
It's nice to help because every woman wants a gentleman in the suites and a Christian Grey between the sheets!
#Disclaimer: Before you shoot me off a defensive email, I know there are many men (ok, like 2) who do all of the housework, cooking and laundry. Know that you are prone to low sexual desire as well from fatigue. Also lots of women yell at men (or control them) too but it just doesn't seem to lower a man's desire.
#50Shades #SexMatters #MenGetLowDesireToo #Choreplay #reportingfromthepractice
Maureen McGrath RN is a health educator, sexpert & host of the Sunday Night Health Show on the Corus Radio Network. Her TEDx talk on No Sex Marriage is #7 in the world. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVgzOyHVcj4